We can"t sleep at night - Parents of abducted students of Government Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State

By Ehi Ekhator

The lives of the parents of the abducted girls from their school ground, at Government Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State, seem miserable as they could not ascertain the whereabouts of their lovely girls.

One of the parents expressed her pains saying ” It was like death when it happened. We cried, we shouted, and we even caused”

The parents who are stuck weather to trust the government who said they will rescue them or believe that the hapless girls are dead find it difficult to conclude on what to think or do. They are restless because their children still in God knows where in the forest. They hardly sleep at night nor walk freely during the day as the thought of their kids keep coming into their hearts. Can say sometimes laugh, dance to music or even crack a joke with their friends as their kids are languishing in the forest? or can they just pretend  nothing has happened and move on with their lives? A question a true parents know exactly the answer to.

Sharing their problems with the media (not NAIJA CENTER NEWS) Mr. Pagu Haruna could not explain what he feels about the situation. As far as he was concern, his daughter, Awa, has dreams as a child, she is well behaved and the hapless father wondered what might be happening to his girl, but just like every other parents who won’t give up on the search for their lovely kids, still hope that she would come back home and make the family happy again.

He said  “I am a sad man. I was among those who went out after our daughters. I am missing a daughter, a niece and a girl put in my care, a friend’s daughter, who is not from Chibok. So, I cannot explain how I am feeling. But I feel the principal should have known that the military would not come to a place like that at the time they did to evacuate students to safety without having one or two of the officers who would be known to the school authorities.

“There were security operatives guarding the school. She should have asked questions before handing over the students in her care to anybody for whatever reasons. We understand the circumstance, but a person in charge of a school, a hospital or any other place like that should be able to think in such a situation.

“If they had taken those students by force, perhaps something could have been done to arrest the situation before they left town but they simply identified themselves as security operatives who wanted to evacuate the students to safety. Although I am not blaming the principal, I feel something is amiss. If I were in her place, I would have asked questions so that when parents came as we all went to her, she would have tangible answers to give us, but all we are being told is one story or another.

“The number keeps changing and we are confused. When we started hearing gunshots in the night, we thought it was the military because sometimes, they would be firing in the night perhaps to scare away whoever might be having some funny ideas. But that night, it was different. Suddenly, there were people shouting and the sound of guns became louder and more rapid.

“Chibok is like one family; our relatives who are living as far away as Abuja were the ones who called to inform us that the school was attacked and our children had been abducted. I was frightened when my younger brother, a military officer, who is in Abuja, called me to ask about our well-being at about 1.00 pm. I told him we were at home but there was trouble and he told me that he was aware because a relation of ours who was also in Abuja called him.

“When he said he heard that our only school was attacked and our daughters were taken, I rushed out of the house. I met some of our people who were already outside and they came with the same report. It was at that moment that all of us came together and went towards the school area and saw it still burning with a few students who had escaped the attack. The students were the ones who told us that some of their colleagues were taken by soldiers in uniform.

“At that time, we were relieved until we realised that our daughters were actually in the hands of insurgents, and not soldiers as we were earlier told. We became confused. I broke down in tears. The women wailed and since then, we have not had rest of minds. It was one story leading to another. Even when the governor came, we thought the government wanted to announce officially that they had rescued our children, but he had only come to give us hope. He left with a promise to ensure a safe return of our children. We don’t know how these young children are doing out there in the bush with strange men around them,” he said.

Another Parents, Mallam Yaga Chiroma, who seems to doubt the honesty behind government’s promise said: “This is very unfortunate. The government is saying all sorts of things, but my brother, we are feeling the pain. We told the governor our minds when he came to Chibok. We told him it was wrong to mention figures that are not true. They took away 234 children, not 129. We only saw about 40 of our children, the rest of them are out there waiting to be rescued. We have lost all hope in the government. They say one thing and do another. We appreciate the fact that the governor came to commiserate with us, but we are not trusting in his promises. We have turned to God for the salvation of our daughters. This was the first time the governor would be coming to Chibok since the beginning of this crisis. We thank him for remembering us. We have been wounded. We have been broken. We have been cheated. We are sad.

“My daughter’s name is Falmata. I  hope to see her again but I do not believe all that the government or the principal is saying because they did not go with us to search for our daughters. In fact, it was by the grace of God that those of us who went into the forest to search for them were able to come back alive. We abandoned the search when, at a point, we were surrounded by strange men who warned us not to go further. It was as if all hope was lost, but when we returned home, people who came around to talk to us encouraged us and we are waiting for a miracle to happen. I would have personally invited you to Chibok but I know it is not possible for you to come, but the pain is everywhere; everybody in Chibok is affected. If your daughter is not among these children, your niece, your neighbour’s daughter, a friend’s daughter or at least a close relation would be among them. Some people are now thinking of going the old way – invoking the ancient spirit – but those of us who are believers are hoping for a miracle,” Chiroma said.

A guadian, Stephen Abana also lamented his pain, saying his late brother’s daughter kept under his care, is among the missing girls.

He explained that his daughter was one of the students that escaped when the attackers invaded the school. He said he cannot relax because though his biological daughter escaped, but his brother’s daughter is with the insurgents.

He said:  “I cannot relax: my biological daughter escaped, but my late brother’s daughter, who is also my daughter, is with Boko Haram. I feel the pain like any other father in Chibok. We are all kibaku, one family. We feel the pain of our loss, but we are praying for our children’s safety and their return home. It was like death when it happened. We cried. We shouted. We even cursed. We went out after them, but we came back with no success because we did not bring back with a single girl that was abducted from the school. If we had weapons, we could have fought our way into the den of the abductors. Many would die and we could have made progress. This is our story in Chibok. We, however, have not lost hope that our children will be back.

“Our people are brave. Yes. But we cannot confront those who abducted our children. The soldiers could not get half of the way we went. But the truth is that there is nothing that we can do except the Federal Government sends soldiers after these people along with some of our people who know the forest and bring our girls back home. We must also prepare our minds for any eventuality if soldiers must go there to get these girls. It is not going to be easy confronting them and getting the girls without any of them getting hurt. But if the government could find a way to avoid confrontation, we will appreciate it because everybody wants to have their daughters back safe.

“We do not know how they are treating our daughters now. Whatever is happening or has happened to them, we do not know. Our prayer is that every one of them will come back to us alive. When the governor came, we pleaded with him to assist us and he promised to do something even though some of us did not believe the government. I believe it is natural to have different views and opinions when something like this happens, but we can do nothing other than to plead with the government, hear what they have to tell us and wait for their action whether it comes or not,” he said.

A group under the aegis of Baobab for Women’s Right condemned the kidnapping of the female students and other abduction within the state, saying the act is inhuman and detrimental to government effort to enhance girl child Education in the state.

This was disclosed in a statement signed by their leader, Professor Hauwa Abdu Biu, who spoke to journalist in Maiduguri that kidnapping the girls was a violation of their rights.

According to the group, kidnapping is a crime against humanity and is not allowed under International humanitarian law. She added an attack on school denies children their right to education in a safe environment, thereby jeopardising their future.

The group said “We also condemn all other attacks in the form of bomb blasts and serial killings all over the country and commiserate with the families of those that lost their lives during the unfortunate incidents. We called on the sect members to release all those in their custody without harming them and, as a matter of urgency, lay down their arms and embrace dialogue. We also wish to assure all those abducted of our motherly support towards rehabilitating them when the need arises,”.

The group appealed to the government to provide security in all schools in order to have a safe environment for the ones education. He condemned the effort of the Federal Government, security agencies as well as the state government towards security, and fighting the insurgents.

Meanwhile, the Principal of the Government Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State, Mrs. Asabe Kwambura revealed that, the school was initially for only girls but later in 2011, the government coverted the school to a mix school, hence, the new name, Government Secondary School, and their total population is 935.

Mrs. Kwambura explained further that 230 students were abducted, and added that she has only received 43 students. She said:. “The principal told journalists during the week that the number of missing students now stands at 230. “Initially, before the arrival of the governor, 234 were missing but four students returned. The number of girls rescued so far is 43.  I have only received 43 students and handed them over to their parents. The initial 129 figure I gave was those that sat for examination on the day they were abducted. The total number of boarding female students is 405. This means that out of 405 students, we have 230 that are still missing. But the other issue is that out of the 230 missing girls, some of them ran home to meet their parents and we have not received any information on them,” .

We can"t sleep at night - Parents of abducted students of Government Secondary School, Chibok, Borno State