What To Avoid After Getting Back To Your Ex

By Ehi Ekhator

let assume you won your ex back, how do you behave this time to avoid those things that caused the fight before. those things you thought before fighting to come back has to come into play. First, you must not bother yourself about the girl or boy your ex is dating now. you do not expect him to stay while you were gone. Some would say ‘ that was fast, you did not even allow 2 months before starting to see another person’. Some people can not stand the thought of not having someone in their life and the only way to stay alive sometimes, is by getting another heart to love you. So, at this time, completely ignore the thought of him having another girl and focus on the mission at hand.

Don’t expect it to be the same field at the moment. Since you came back, your ex closeness is not as before. now you feel you must have imposed yourself on him or you have made a mistake by coming back. The answer is no! There will be that distance for now. remember you are not a new girlfriend. both of you had known each other for a while. again, focus on the mission at hand.

Can you be so sure that no other guy came your way the period both of you broke up? even now that you are with him, those guys still send you text messages and call you to show their version of love to you. in this case, both of you are in same ship. gradually get rid of your admirers and he will do the same.

What you need to do is to show to him that you have changed and realizes your mistakes. These are no words but actions and this will start bringing him back home.

For the period you broke up, you have actually learnt about your ex. you realizes how fun he is and you believe you really known him. Dont forget the person you really learnt about during your break up is YOU! you have realized your mistakes and promised to change. you are now a better person. is like going for reabilitation. so it takes time for it to get back beyond the way it was and this will require your patients.

Ronnie says “Make it better the second time by learning from your mistakes.” Ask yourself: Are you making your partner an important part of your life? Are you taking him or her for granted?”

First you have to be the right partner. BE THE PARTNER YOU WILL LIKE TO BE INVOLVE WITH. the changes start from you. when you are the right partner, and your partner try to be the right partner, then both of you become the right partner fighting for change.

Getting back together with an ex can be healthy—as long as you’re both happy. “Any relationship is unhealthy if it doesn’t make you feel good,” Paget says.

What To Avoid After Getting Back To Your Ex